Posts Tagged ‘Prayer’

We Give Thanks, God Has Blessed Us With Another Priest. Congratulations, Fr. Andrew Kinstetter!

Nothing like an ordination to breath new life into a local Church.  The cathedral was full for today’s ordination of Rev. Andrew Kinstetter, and it was a beautiful celebration!  Pictures from the ceremony can be viewed here, and as always, I’m very grateful to Matt Potter for his photography skills.  Homily is below. Please join us in grateful prayer to God for the blessing of a new priest!

Homily For Priesthood Ordination of Rev. Andrew Kinstetter, May 20, 2016

Kinstetter 1The Gospel selected for today (John 17:6, 14-19) gives us not only a beautiful teaching of Jesus, but perhaps an equally important image of Priesthood. Jesus is at prayer, in the midst of his disciples. Jesus is praying to the Father on behalf of his disciples. This prayer of Jesus takes place as he celebrates the First Eucharist of the Church which is the Last Supper. Of course, the broader backdrop of this ‘painting’ is the Paschal Mystery, the passion, death and resurrection of Jesus. The even more expansive backdrop is the history of salvation which finds its culmination and fulfillment in Jesus. In a way, Jesus shares with the priest a unique participation in all of this.

So what does this image of Priesthood have to say to the young man before us today? Plenty!

Andrew, take time to pray not only for your people, but in their midst. One of the delicate balances of priesthood involves being both an individual on his own pilgrimage, in need of an intimate relationship with Jesus, as well as one who “is taken from among men and made their representative before God, to offer gifts and sacrifices for sins.” (Hebrews 5:1) The priest must be close to both Jesus and his people.

While I was a seminarian, I remember telling one of the formation staff that I would want a chapel in my residence as a priest. He gave me some good advice. He said: “That is fine, but do not forget, your people need to see you pray, too.” Then, later as a priest, I knew the frustration of trying to pray in the church. Inevitably, someone would come in to decorate or clean, or even more often, the parishioner who would approach and say: “Father, I’m glad you are not doing anything. I’ve been wanting to talk to you.” Andrew, waste plenty of time in prayer! It will be the most productive element of your priesthood, and the source of whatever is good in everything else that you do.

Kinstetter 2Always strive for balance in your prayer – and everything else in life. Stay close to Christ, and grow always closer to him. As did Jesus in today’s ‘prayer,’ you too must give voice to the needs of your people, a voice that calls out to God our Father. Your intimacy with Christ will give you confidence that the prayers and petitions you take to the Father will receive an attentive ear and a Providential response. Being close to your people will assure that your prayer to the Father will be up to date and in tune with their needs. Accompanying your people will assure that you do not become too narrowly focused on your own self, which will only lead to loneliness, frustration and ultimately, resentment about the life you have chosen, or rather, that Christ has chosen for you.

Jesus Christ is the Eternal High Priest spoken of in our second reading today in the Letter to the Hebrews. As the author of the sacred text tells us, Jesus did not glorify himself. Rather, by his obedience to the Father, Jesus’ entire life and ministry glorified God. None of us takes the stole of priesthood upon one’s self. It is a gift and calling received from Jesus, through the Church. Just as Jesus revealed the Father to his disciples, (John 17:6) the credible and authentic priest is the one who continually directs his people to the Father and His Kingdom.

Fr. Kinstetter's family present the gifts

Fr. Kinstetter’s family present the gifts

No one claims the office of priesthood for one’s self. It is only through the laying on of hands of the bishop that the eternal priesthood is bestowed upon us. Likewise, priesthood is only valuable and credible when we follow Christ as his disciple, and serve Christ in those he entrusts to our care. Jesus recognized that his disciples ultimately ‘belong to the Father,’ and they were given to him by the Father. Likewise, a good priest realizes that those entrusted to his care are a gift from God. They deserve a pastor’s care, which is rooted in the heart of Jesus.

As Jesus was sent into the world by the Father, so Jesus sends his priest into the world. As Jesus gave his disciples the Word of the Father, so the priest is sent into the world to proclaim the Living Word of God. Jesus experienced rejection because of his fidelity to the Father, and he warns his disciples that the world will reject us as well. Andrew, do not be surprised when you encounter rejection because you bring Christ’s truth and love into the world. Do not let this rejection rob you of your joy nor diminish your hope.

In part, Jesus prayed for his disciples simply because Jesus is THE Good Shepherd. But Jesus knew his disciples well, and he knew not only what they would face, but he knew their weaknesses. One of the great miracles of the Church down through the ages, and is still true today; one of the great signs of just how much God’s people love the Church and its priests, is that they are not scandalized by our weaknesses. They see beyond the humanity of the Church in her ministers to the reality that through it all, the Church is also Divine.

Andrew, part of your formation has helped you to acknowledge your own weaknesses. Some of them, over the course of years, you have been able to correct, perhaps even eliminate. But because you are human, you have also come to know those other weaknesses that must simply be embraced and managed. This is true of all of us. And as St. Paul teaches, these are those entry points in every human life where we must humbly acknowledge our total dependence upon Christ. “I willingly boast of my weakness, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I am content with weakness, with mistreatment, with distress, with persecutions and difficulties for the sake of Christ; for when I am powerless, it is then that I am strong.” (2 Corinthians 12: 9-10) The wisest priest among us is the one who has come to realize that his truest and only strength is Christ.

The life of Christ is the source of grace for all the members of the Church. The priest not only draws upon this font of grace and goodness, but he is a vessel through whom Christ pours out his grace upon the Church. The life of Christ bore abundant fruit; from the hope he gave through his preaching, his chaste love which your life now mirrors, the healing offered to the sick, the human dignity restored through his mercy and forgiveness, and ultimately, the fruit of salvation won for the world by his death and resurrection.

Andrew, be attentive that your life and ministry are fruitful. Humbly recognize Christ as the source of this fruitfulness. Be particularly attentive that the life of your parish also bears much fruit. When the lives of our parishioners and the life of our parishes do not bear fruit, then we pastors must be attentive to discover the cause of such sterility, and as good shepherds nurse the Church back to fullness of health. Jesus talks about this reality in Matthews Gospel:

A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a rotten tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire. So by their fruits you will know them. (Matthew 7: 18-20)

Finally, Andrew, Jesus prayed that the Father would protect his disciples from the evil one. This remains his prayer for us today. No matter how dark some days may be, know that you are always under the protection of Jesus and of his Mother, Mary. After all, our Lord and our Lady are the best tag team in history!

I encourage you to have a strong devotion to our Blessed Mother, and in your own good time and discernment, to make a consecration to Mary. Just as Mary’s life was at the total service of God’s will, which meant totally devoted to her Son, her dedication continues today to seeing the will of God and the work of salvation accomplished. With Mary’s help, root yourself and your priestly ministry in the heart of Jesus, and the Flame of love of the Immaculate Heart of Mary will blind the evil one, and the Kingdom of God will continue to advance in this world. (Diary of Elizabeth Kindelman) In the words of a soon-to-be Saint, Mother Theresa of Calcutta: “Be only and all for Jesus through Mary.

Please God, may it be so!

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Holy Door For Year Of Mercy Open In Teton National Park

Sacred Heart Chapel, Teton National Park, photo courtesy of Ryan Dorgan / Jackson Hole News & Guide

Sacred Heart Chapel, Teton National Park, photo courtesy of Ryan Dorgan / Jackson Hole News & Guide

As this Year of Mercy progresses, we now have a Holy Door for pilgrims to visit in the western portion of the Diocese of Cheyenne. Now that the Teton National Park has reopened for the season, we were able to dedicate another Holy Door in the State of Wyoming in the beautiful Sacred Heart Chapel.

I had every intention of presiding over the ceremony, but illness prevented me from being on hand, so Fr. Louis Shea got to do the honors!  A local reporter from the Jackson Hole News & Guide provided a nice story, which you can read here.

The National Parks are a true treasure of this nation, and Teton National Park is one of the gems in the crown.  From the raw beauty of the park, the inspiring spires of the Tetons to the variety of wildlife that can be found in few other places, it is a for sure bucket list destination.  Along with all of that, there is the quiet sanctuary of Sacred Heart Chapel.

Photo courtesy of Ryan Dorgan / Jackson Hole News & Guide

Photo courtesy of Ryan Dorgan / Jackson Hole News & Guide

Besides the grace of simply walking through the Holy Doors and fulfilling a few simple obligations of receiving the Sacrament of Reconciliation, receiving Holy Communion and saying a few prayers, the chapel provides a place of solitude for prayer.  The chapel is open all day and night, with Mass available Sunday evenings at 5:00 mid June through September.

This Jubilee Year is a time for us to first of all recall God’s incredible patience with us, and the infinite mercy that is ours through Jesus Christ.  Once we become rooted in God’s mercy, we are then to be the agents of mercy in the lives of others.  As God continues to abide in our midst through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit, we are to accompany others that they may come to know the warmth and tenderness of God in their lives.

Nature is God’s first book.  Spend some time this summer in the beauty of God’s creation that he may re-create your spirit.  Spend some time with Jesus Christ today and every day that God may stir your soul and inspire you to serve Him in your neighbor, furthering the Kingdom of Heaven here on earth!





Prayer For The Jubilee Year Of Mercy

Rembrandt, Face of Christ

Rembrandt, Face of Christ

Lord Jesus Christ,

you have taught us to be merciful like the heavenly Father,

and have told us that whoever sees you sees Him.

Show us your face and we will be saved.

Your loving gaze freed Zacchaeus and Matthew from being enslaved by money;

the adulteress and Magdalene from seeking happiness only in created things;

made Peter weep after his betrayal,

and assured Paradise to the repentant thief.

Let us hear, as if addressed to each one of us, the words that you spoke to the Samaritan woman:

“If you knew the gift of God!”

You are the visible face of the invisible Father,

of the God who manifests his power above all by forgiveness and mercy:

let the Church be your visible face in the world, its Lord risen and glorified.

You willed that your ministers would also be clothed in weakness

in order that they may feel compassion for those in ignorance and error:

let everyone who approaches them feel sought after, loved, and forgiven by God.

Send your Spirit and consecrate every one of us with its anointing,

so that the Jubilee of Mercy may be a year of grace from the Lord,

and your Church, with renewed enthusiasm, may bring good news to the poor,

proclaim liberty to captives and the oppressed,

and restore sight to the blind.

We ask this of you, Lord Jesus, through the intercession of Mary, Mother of

Mercy; you who live and reign with the Father and the Holy Spirit for ever and



Living The Power Of God’s Word And The Paschal Mystery

For some reason, these last few days have been a spiritual struggle for me. But, that is the reality of the spiritual life; it is a constant ebb and flow of ups and downs, of consolation and desolation, of fidelity and temptations. Through the course of every spiritual journey, God is doing what he does best, tempering us for holiness.

The life of the believer is a continual invitation to live what we believe, namely, by the power of God’s Word, the strength of Grace, going deeper everyday into the Paschal Mystery of Jesus’ own death and resurrection.

I pray often about the challenges of our culture and Church, wondering how to help people live at deeper levels the power of our faith in the risen Jesus Christ.  During his recent pastoral visit to the United States and Cuba, one of the subtle messages of Pope Francis was to rise above the culture war mentality of our times.  He knows well the many worldly attractions of our day which challenge the existence of God and the teachings of the Church, but he does not allow those realities to be the focus.  He is astute in his awareness of these challenges, but lives and preaches centered in the life of the Risen Christ.

I noticed that nearly every address or homily he gave concluded with reference to the Light and Power of Christ, his Resurrection, and his Word, with a wise application of these realities to the challenges of human life.  He also regularly seeks the intercession and example of the Blessed Mother.

I could not help but think of Jesus as I watched and listened to our Holy Father.  He did not allow himself to be trapped by the usual parameters of liberal and conservative, democrat or republican, but instead kept preaching the Truth, in all of its fullness and beauty.  He demonstrated very practically how we are to be bridge-builders and barrier-breakers by the way we engage one another and our surrounding culture.

Mercifully, this morning, as I begin a new day, I feel the tides of my own spiritual journey shifting, once again experiencing an abiding presence of Christ and the consolations of the Holy Spirit.  But I have had to ask myself in recent days, and this is the question every follower of Christ faces periodically: “How do I draw upon the power of Christ in my darkness?”  “How do I allow the power of God’s Word and the grace of the sacraments be my strength when I am weak?”

Clearly, all of us need to be faithful to prayer, time spent reading and studying God’s Word, and especially receiving the sacraments of Eucharist and Reconciliation.  We also need to place our trust in God by asking him for what we are most in need of, and here I am speaking of spiritual goods, not worldly, such as virtue, perseverance, faith, trust, hope, and most of all, greater love.

God is always with us.  God is always faithful.  We need only open up to these realities.  Today’s Gospel is fitting instruction indeed:

And I tell you, ask and you will receive; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.  For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and the one who knocks, the door will be opened.  What father among you would hand his son a snake when he asks for a fish?  Or hand him a scorpion when he asks for an egg?  If you then, who are wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?  (Luke 11: 9-13)


Priesthood Ordination Homily; 2015

Prieshood Ordination Homily: May 22, 2015

Most Reverend Paul D. Etienne

St. Mary’s Cathedral, Cheyenne, Wyoming

Deacon Hiep Nguyen & Deacon Augustine Carrillo

My dear friends, welcome to the St. Mary’s Cathedral. Welcome to the Diocese of Cheyenne. I wish to extend a special word of welcome and of thanks to Augustine’s and Hiep’s families who are present with us. Thank you for sharing your sons with us, and helping them to answer the call of Jesus to serve the people of the Diocese of Cheyenne as a priest of God.

I also wish to acknowledge a few other special guests who have joined us. Fr. Bede Cisco and Fr. Julian Peter are Benedictine priests from the Archabbey and School of Theology of St. Meinrad. Sr. Maria Amigo, Sisters For Christian Community is here to represent Conception Seminary in Missouri. We also extend a warm welcome to the seminary companions of Hiep and Augustine who have travelled to be with us, and extend congratulations to those of you who will also soon be ordained to the priesthood.

Finally, to you, Hiep and Augustine, I will address the majority of my remarks. Thank you both for your attentiveness to the Word of God, to the person of Jesus who has called you to this moment. Thank you for your willingness to say “Yes” to him, which is also a “Yes” to the People of God of the Diocese of Cheyenne who will shortly, formally call you to this Office known as Holy Orders.

I wish to draw to your attention the feast we celebrate in the Universal Church today, that of St. Rita of Cascia. During my years as a seminary student in Rome, I would make pilgrimage to her shrine twice a year, during the season of final exams. She is after all the patroness of desperate causes. I’m sure that is no reflection upon your own qualifications to be chosen as priests, but I assure you, in the future, you will experience those ‘desperate moments’ in your own life and ministry. I encourage you to always seek her intercession, and she will hold you close to Christ, and help you find your way in faith, hope, even joy.

With St. Rita as your model, live lives of contemplation and prayer. Her contemplation of Christ in prayer and her service to him in the lives of the poor led to a physical manifestation in her own flesh. She received a wound from a thorn in the crown of Christ as a sign of her own participation in his loving self-sacrifice. Today you promise to be a man of prayer. Make nurturing your life in Christ the first priority of every day, through prayerful fidelity to the Liturgy of Hours and most especially through your daily celebration of the Eucharist. Priests and bishops are empty vessels, dark lamps, if we try to carry out our ministry as Priests of Jesus Christ without doing our best to remain in him. Likewise, we are frauds before those we seek to be spiritual guides if we are not under some form of spiritual guidance ourselves.

Such spiritual guidance is important in the life of every person, and especially in the life of a priest. Fidelity to your promises of obedience, prayer and celibacy will be regularly challenged by the evil one. No one can be their own spiritual director. Such self-guidance leaves one susceptible to the deceptions of the demon. Find someone to be a spiritual companion who is equipped to help you remain faithful to Christ and true to yourself.

Beyond these traditional promises of priesthood, I wish to spend a little time reflecting now on the immediate challenges of today. Obviously, fidelity to our priestly promises is critical, but there are also gifts given by the Lord to everyone he calls and sends into the world in his name. You have been chosen. You are sent. Your selection and commissioning is meant to be fruitful, for some benefit, specifically in the context of today’s needs, both within the Church and in the broader society.

That is why it is so important for priests today to get out of the sacristy and out from behind the desk and get into the lives of your people. First and foremost, particularly while you are young and new to this ministry, develop the habit of a good shepherd who is always mindful of the poor and marginalized. They need the gaze of compassion and the healing touch of human concern, not just a hand out and a quick dismissal. Know their names, not just their needs.

Get to know those who claim they need no formal religion. Understand them, and help the Church to understand how we can better minister to them. Get out of you comfort zone. Follow the exhortation of Pope Francis to go out to the peripheries. I am tasking each of you with the specific work of young adult ministry. Make time for our young church, and do not be content to know only those who presently practice their faith within the Church. Get to know them in their surroundings. Get to know their concerns, the crosses they carry, the questions of their hearts, and be a shepherd to them.

This is a big part of how today’s priests who are anointed by the Spirit are to fulfill their ministry. As the Prophet Isaiah proclaims in the first reading today, it is the Lord and the power of the Spirit that sends you “to bring good news to the afflicted, to bind up the brokenhearted and to proclaim liberty to the captives.” Such outreach will keep you faithful to your call to make a gift of your life. Such extension of yourself to not only those of the parish, but beyond the walls of the church will keep you from falling into the snare of isolation. Be men of communion by building community wherever you go.

Allow a well ordered ministry be what exhausts you rather than being wearied by chasing the things of this world. Do not be satisfied with ‘just being busy.’ We do not need busy priests. The Church needs priests who are engaged with their people. Do not be content to just assume the roles of what is now in place. Help your pastors, your people, me your bishop, to question what we are presently doing, in order to discover what the Holy Spirit is asking of us. I firmly believe the demon is successfully keeping us busy today about things that in the end do not truly advance the Kingdom of God. This is why we need to wisely discern the spirits that are at work in our life and in the Church.

If we are going to be successful today as Church, we must do a much better job at inviting and empowering the laity to take up their rightful roles of service in the Church. Too much in parish life today still revolves around the priest. Obviously, the Pastor has a legitimate and important role to play, not just sacramentally, but as the shepherd who leads and guides the People of God. But as the second reading today reminds and properly instructs us, every member has a gift which must be equally employed: “we are one body in Christ, and individually parts of one another. Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us; let us exercise them:” (Romans 4: 5-6)

We have plenty of room to grow in recognizing the gifts of every member of the church, and empowering each member to utilize those gifts for the building up of the Body of Christ. Once again, discernment is needed. The shepherd must know the members of his parish in order to recognize their unique gifts and to call them into service. The priest is not the only one who loves Jesus. He is not the only one sent by the Lord for some purpose which builds up the Body of Christ, the Church.

In the Gospel today, we hear of that wonderful moment when the Risen Christ appears to Peter and the disciples, who are fishing just off the shore of the Sea of Galilee. Jesus invites the disciples ashore for a breakfast of grilled fish. His desire is once again to reassure them that he is truly Risen, in the flesh, and that death has no power over him. Along with this reassurance comes deeper understanding of the Life that He is sharing with them, from which now flows their commission to go into the world to proclaim the Good News.

During this encounter, Jesus asks Peter three times: “Peter, do you love me?” Three times Peter gives his response: “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.” With each Question of love and with each response of love, Jesus is extending the mercy that heals Peter of his denials of Christ. With each question and answer of love comes a concrete directive of Christ to Peter to put his words into action: “Feed my lambs, tend my sheep, feed my sheep.”

The lesson for all of us is that when we have offended Christ by our sins, he is always ready to renew his love for us. Hiep and Augustine, from today forward, you will be ministers of this great mercy of God. In order to be authentic as confessors in the person of Christ, you must follow the example of Peter and be regular penitents as well.

Another important lesson from this dialogue of love between Christ and Peter is that our fruitfulness as priests flows from our obedience to Christ. Our fruitfulness as priests demands that we put our love into concrete practice. Love the People of God well, and this will be your best response to Christ: “Lord, you know that I love you.”

Finally, this weekend, the Church will celebrate Pentecost, that moment when Christ pours out the gift of the Holy Spirit upon the Church. Augustine and Hiep, desire and beg for the Holy Spirit in your ministry as priests. Pray that our Mother Mary, the Spouse of the Holy Spirit will intercede for you and your priestly ministry. God is clearly doing something ‘new’ in the Church today, and we need only open our hearts, our lives and our ministry to the Holy Spirit for the renewal of the Church. You have been given your own gifts, and they are gifts for the new millennium, gifts for the new evangelization.

Consecrate yourself to our Lady, and she who is the Spouse of the Holy Spirit, the Mother of the Church will keep you close to Christ. May your love for Christ always be fruitfully expressed in your love for the Church, which is God’s holy, faithful people.

Christ chose you. Today Christ claims you. Never let him go!


God bless you.

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On this day of the March for Marriage, enjoy the video below.

Address At Governor’s Prayer Breakfast

This morning many of the Wyoming State legislators and other state officials gathered at Little America for the annual Governor’s Prayer Breakfast. I was asked by Governor Mead to give this year’s address, which I share with you here.

The Power and Necessity of Prayer

Address at Governor’s Prayer Breakfast, February 11, 2014

The Most Reverend Paul D. Etienne, Bishop of Cheyenne

First of all, please allow me to thank you, Governor Mead for your invitation to be with all of you this morning for this time of prayer. I wish to thank you and all our other distinguished guests present here today for your service to the people of Wyoming.

I’ve gone through a number of ideas and drafts of what I might say this morning, but finally settled on this question: “Why a Prayer breakfast?”

In his First Letter to the Thessalonians (5:17) St. Paul says: “Pray without ceasing.”

And again in the Letter to the Ephesians, St. Paul says: “With all prayer and supplication, pray at every opportunity in the Spirit. To that end, be watchful with all perseverance and supplication for all the holy ones…” I would suggest that ‘all the holy ones’ are God’s people, and God’s people are those you and I have been called and or elected to serve. So, it is right to pray for them.

The encouragement to pray is in and of itself an instruction that the human person is created for relationship with God. Most of our life we wrongly think that prayer is about our action towards God, when in reality, it is what opens us to the reality of God’s unrelenting pursuit of each one of us. True human greatness is achieved when we are open to what God is longing to do for us and within us. Once a human person understands that their greatest dignity is found in their relationship with God, their own life is no longer self-referential, or self-serving. The realization that we are called to relationship with God then opens us and all of society to something that lies beyond us, but yet, with God’s assistance, is always within our reach.

So, again, why a prayer breakfast? Do we come to simply check-off this particular part of the day’s to-do list and then be on our way, as if our conversation with God has nothing to do with what we do the rest of the day? When we rise from prayer, do we put God in a box until we are ready to talk to Him again? This would be the safe thing to do. For, God is an awesome God. Indeed, when He summoned the People Israel to the base of the mountain before calling Moses up the mountain to receive the commandments, the people were so frightened with this epiphany of God’s presence and power they begged Moses to speak to God on their behalf, because they were too afraid to do so personally.

To approach prayer in this manner, and to approach God in this manner undermines the reality that we are all created by God, for relationship with God. To put the God who created us in a box as if we created Him and He not us leaves the human heart frustrated and closed off from its highest calling and human potential. All of creation finds its order and harmony in the Creator, and this is especially true of the human person, and if this is true for the human person, then it only makes sense that it holds true for society.

I would like to share with you three stories today which speak of the creative genius of God. They will go from humorous to serious; from creation, which is naturally ordered to God, to the human which must freely embrace God’s call to discover the fullness of one’s potential.

Three years ago, I was discovering the joy of fly fishing. As a native Hoosier, I did not have any experience with fly fishing when I came to Wyoming in 2009. I had asked one of my priests to go with me on a fly fishing trip which someone gave me as a welcome gift to Wyoming. So, we went to Saratoga, Hack’s Tackle, and made our way to the launch point on the North Platte for an all day float trip.

We had a very good guide who was being very attentive to the “bishop.” A few hours into the float, just about an hour before we stopped for lunch, I was noticing that my priest friend was having much more success from the back of the boat than I was from the front. I pointed this out to the guide. He told me to just keep fishing. So, after a little more of the same pattern, I told the guide: “If I don’t start getting some hits, I’m going to start cheating.” He got this strange look on his face and looked at me and said: “Bishop, how does one cheat when fishing?” I told him: “I’m going to start praying.” He just laughed…

So, after another 20 minutes or so, I said: “OK, I’m going to start cheating.” He just smiled. About a minute later I tied into a significant fish. I did not realize just how nice a fish I had on the hook, but the guide and my partner did. The guide about had a heart attack when I started one-handing the fly rod to reach into my pocket to dig out my camera to give him to take a picture. He started stammering: “Both hands, Bishop! Both hands!” Within an unusually short time, I landed a 26 inch Brown Trout. The guide had to anchor the boat to calm down. He told me: “Bishop, I’ve been guiding this stretch of river for ten years, and many people have hooked some big fish, but that is the biggest fish anyone has landed in my boat!” I learned this fall that record still holds for him.

Now, I’m not suggesting that praying will always conjure up the largest fish, or a win for your favorite team, but I believe it made a significant impression upon this young man.

The next story takes us to a hunting scenario. This past Fall, Justice Scalia was in- State for a few days to do some antelope and mule deer hunting. Justice Scalia being a strong Catholic, the family where he was staying asked if I would come out to celebrate Mass for them while he was there. I of course obliged, and made two visits during his stay.

The home is situated on a ranch, so I set up the altar on a small table in the living room with my back to the window.   After Mass, one of those in attendance told me: “Bishop, we wish you could have seen the view we had during Mass. As you were celebrating the Eucharist, the cows gathered outside the window and were peering inside.” I told them: “That is no surprise, because all of nature has an innate sense of the Divine. All of nature is naturally ordered to the Divine.”

Later that evening, Justice Scalia shared a personal story of his days at Georgetown University. He recalled his final exam before graduation. He said in those days, you had to pass a comprehensive oral exam.   So, I found myself in a room with six Jesuit professors asking me questions. My degree was in history, and I will never forget the final question of that exam.

The Jesuit professor looked at me and said: “Well, Mr. Scalia, you have answered quite well, showing a good mastery of the material. I have one final question for you: “What in your estimation was the greatest event in history?” I thought to myself: “Well, you’ve just been told that you have aced this exam, so this answer does not really matter all that much. I remember thinking of a couple possible responses and diving in. After I was done, the professor looked at me and said: ‘Mr. Scalia, you are wrong. The greatest event in history was the Incarnation. Never separate your faith from your work.’”

Great advice for each and every one of us.

Finally, on a more personal story: Recently I was unable to sleep at night. This is quite often the case, and seems to happen more regularly when the legislature is in session! But, this night, I was quite disturbed about something, and was not quite sure what the right approach was and was quite restless. I have a Blessed Sacrament Chapel in my residence, so I just went to the chapel, and sat there before the Blessed Sacrament and told the LORD:   “How do you expect me to serve you tomorrow if you will not let me sleep tonight?” And just like that, I knew I had only one option: place my burden in his hands.

In closing, we pray because we are in relationship with God. We pray not so much to tell God what is going on in our life, but to open our hearts and minds and lives to God, that He may share with us the desires of His heart. This divine desire for the human person is the true source of hope that causes every human heart to soar. God is the true Good that when pursued and served brings satisfaction to the human heart and harmony to the human community.


Thank you.

New Pastoral Letter: Generous Distributors of God’s Grace

Pastoral CoverAs 2015 begins, I wish each of you a very blessed new year!

After some final edits and formatting, my recent pastoral letter is now available on line (here) and will soon be mailed from the printers to every home in the Diocese of Cheyenne.  I pray you will take the time to read this letter, and more importantly, join us in carrying out these new priorities for our Diocese.

As we are making our resolutions for the new year, I hope a few of those resolutions involve renewing your relationship with Jesus Christ, through prayer, sacrament, and greater involvement in the life of the parish.  Another great resolution is to make more time for family.

This pastoral letter offers several suggestions for prayers, including a prayer for vocations, a prayer to be included with the recitation of the rosary, and the Angelus.  I strongly encourage as well each person learn when your local parish is offering a Holy Hour for Eucharistic Adoration, and that you spend some time in intimate prayer with the Lord.

May 2015 hold many blessings for each of you.  Together, let us hold each other in prayer, asking for the grace to grow in holiness as we strive to fulfill God’s will in each of our lives. Peace, +pde

St. Monica Gives Instruction For Catholic Parents Today

As we remember St. Monica today, I find myself thinking of her model of parenting.  As with every saint, there are unique paths to holiness.  That path might be through a great intellect, such as St. Thomas Aquinas or St. Bonaventure, or many other Doctors of the Church.  The path might be through a great self-discipline, such as some of the early hermits.  Perhaps the path is through tremendous prayer life or charity.  I would suggest that parenting was the path for St. Monica.

St. Monica clearly did all that she could to lead her children to Christ, and she never stopped praying for the conversion of her most famous son, whose feast day we celebrate tomorrow, St. Augustine.  The Office of Readings today provides an excerpt from St. Augustine’s Confessions where the great saint recalls a conversation with his mother days before she died.  Their conversation reflected their conscious awareness of God’s presence – a presence St. Augustine refers to as one of the great titles of Christ – Truth.

Here is the first point for today’s parents, to create an atmosphere of faith within the home.  Parents have a unique role and responsibility to raise their children in the faith, to lead their children to Christ.  How many conversations does a parent have with a child through the course of a lifetime?  How often does faith enter into those conversations?  How often does the parent help the child to ask questions about God’s will in their life, and encourage their child to grow in knowledge of God through their knowledge of Scripture, through prayer, through the Church by regularly receiving the Sacraments?

A little further on in this conversation between these mother and son saints, we hear that they were speculating on what the life of the saints is like as they share the joy of eternal life.  This is a close point to the first, but slightly different.  Parents have a unique role to play in the life of their children in creating what I would call a ‘Catholic environment’ in the home.  This can be done by making sure that the various liturgical seasons are recognized by family traditions in the home.

My mother had a particular gift for creating this Catholic culture, through music, food, decorations, prayer, active participation in our parish, and yes, conversation.  All of my siblings have many fond memories of Advent, Christmas, Lent, Easter, and the many family traditions that were a part of each of these seasons, and the critical role they played of teaching and re-enforcing the faith in the home.  Creating a Catholic culture in the home is a vital (and can by a lot of fun!) role of parenting.

St. Augustine goes on to share in this morning’s segment from the Confessions how such conversation and faith over time led both of these great saints to desire less and less worldly things, and further strengthened the desire and longing for the things of heaven.  And this leads to the final point for consideration of parenting today.

One of St. Monica’s final requests to her sons was that after she died, she cared not where her body was laid to rest.  Her only thought was that her sons remember her at the altar of the Lord.  Parents today would do well to help their children grow in their belief and understanding that eternal life is the ultimate goal of every believer.  Our life upon this earth is a ‘pilgrimage,’ a life of faith, a journey to the ultimate goal of heaven.  Parents are responsible when they help their children understand that through sin we run the risk of losing this eternal life with God and the saints.  Why else would this holy woman ask her sons to continue to pray for her after she has died?  While in this life we certainly believe in and rely upon God’s mercy, but a faithfully mature Catholic never takes that mercy for granted, nor presumes the mercy of God while living in this world with little attention to God’s commandments.

As we all know, St. Monica and the power of her prayers are credited with the conversion of St. Augustine.  Many parents today are concerned about children who no longer practice their faith.  So, parents, never stop praying for your children.  Know that Mary, the great ‘mother of the Church’ never ceases to pray for us.  Also seek the intercession of St. Monica in your own prayer for your children.  Never doubt the power of God to actively intervene for the good of those we love!

As the prayer of St. Monica led her son back to God and ultimately to discover his vocation as a priest and bishop, and even a great Doctor of the Church, so may the model of life and prayers of our parents today help their children discover God and His Truth in the person of Jesus Christ.  As each of the children of the Church discover the presence and love of God in their lives, may they also come to know God’s will in their unique vocations, that God may continue to bless the Church with many more holy men and women, husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, priests and religious for the building up of God’s Kingdom and the renewal of His Church.



Blessed Are The Peacemakers…

Religious Leaders of Islamic, Jewish and Christian Faiths gather in Cathedral Rectory, Denver.  (Photo Courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

Religious Leaders of Islamic, Jewish and Christian Faiths gather in Cathedral Rectory, Denver. (Photo Courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

Monday evening, August 11, 2014, a very diverse group of religious leaders gathered in the Cathedral rectory in Denver. A special ‘Thanks’ to Archbishop Aquila for gathering these faith leaders.  I was grateful to be a part of the evening.

What ensued was a brief discussion of our concern for all that is transpiring in the Middle East, especially with regards to the rise of ISIS (Islamic State In Syria).

ISIS is conducting some of the worst sins against humanity sins the holocaust of WWII. Persecution, eviction from homes, forcible conversions to Islam, mass murder, indiscriminate killing, is now methodically carried out against Christians, Muslims and ethnic groups. Along with this genocide is a destruction of culture, as ancient churches and mosques are destroyed, along with priceless ancient texts and works of art. In short, a way of life that predates Christ is being destroyed.

Recognizing that people of faith cannot sit silently while such atrocities are perpetuated, this group of religious leaders decided to speak out, calling for concrete action from world and religious leaders to address the deteriorating conditions in Iraq as well as throughout the Middle East.

Denver Cathedral, Prayer Service For Peace.  (Photo Courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

Denver Cathedral, Prayer Service For Peace. (Photo Courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

The leaders included members of the three revealed religions, Jewish, Christian and Muslim. We all agreed that the most powerful ‘weapon’ we can bring to the urgent need of all of the people involved in this conflict is our prayer. Recognizing that we are all ‘Children of Abraham,’ and believers in the One, Same God, we came together to pray for peace. As children of One God, we are all brothers and sisters.

After an hour long visit with each other, we entered the Cathedral, where a standing room only crowd gathered, representing the same diversity of believers, to pray for peace. As the religious leaders processed in, we arrived at the sanctuary, where there stood three podiums. Upon each of these stands were placed a Quran, the Torah, and a Book of the Gospels.

Jewish Representative Reads from the Torah.  (Photo Courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

Jewish Representative Reads from the Torah. (Photo Courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

One religious leader from each of the three major traditions read a passage from the Sacred Word, once again followed by an English translation. Archbishop Aquila read a Gospel passage and then offered some moving remarks about our powerful contribution in these days through our prayer, advocacy, and concrete offering of practical assistance to those who have had to leave home and all worldly possessions behind.

The prayer service was deeply moving, and a strong reminder that for people of faith, prayer is strong medicine. The evening was also for me a wonderful experience of God the Father. Jesus taught us to call God Father, ‘our Father.’ When praying with people who do not share our belief in Jesus Christ, but do share faith in the God of all creation, created a tremendous sense of unity, which must be the ‘unity’ Jesus prays for. (John 17: 11)

My dear friends, let us pray for peace! Let us work for peace! Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

Archbishop Aquila's appeal for peace.  (Photo courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)

Archbishop Aquila’s appeal for peace. (Photo courtesy Archdiocese of Denver)


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